The Space Between

I've often wondered if absence truly makes the heart fonder or does it give one an excuse to make things fall apart. Maintaining a long distance relationship has always been described as the hardest to maintain because there are many more obstacles to overcome. You have to take into account all of the physical barriers as well as the potential emotional disconnect that can occur when you can't be with the one you love. But who's to say that the miles that separate you have to hinder the bond that you two have unless there is an underlying issue.

Its my personal belief that a long distance relationship can work if there is a solid foundation that is set in place. If there are unresolved issues that linger before one moves away then there is a great probability the relationship won't pan out well. It just leaves room for speculation of all kinds of wrong doing and trust issues to occur more feverishly. Many different things could and possibly will go wrong but if you truly love and trust the one you're with then you could overcome these obstacles.

Trust...

It's a thing that most people take for granted but wish they valued the most once its gone. What's important to remember, especially in these types of relationships, is that trust is sometimes the only thing you have to hold on to. There's no sure fire way to know if your significant other is doing wrong or right, but trust is one thing you have to believe in. If that person means that much to you then they will do everything in their power to make sure it stays in tact. If they don't then the space between you two was put in place for a reason.

Until next time folks '...Keep calm and carry on'