If there is one thing I CANNOT stand it is someone who constantly feels sorry for themselves.
There is simply not enough time in the day for people to be sorry for themselves ALL the time. It's one thing to have moments of weakness because we all have them. But to let that self wallowing carry on into your everyday life I can not condone. After a while it's time for you to be proactive about what has gone wrong in your life and make a change for the better.
We as people need to understand that all the time that we invest into a situation causes for said situation to exist. The more time you invest into putting a negative situation means the more that situation has power over you. Much like when you respond to a hater, acknowledging and letting a problem you are having get to you means that the situation has won you over. If you simply address the problem head on and get over it you most of the time will feel better. Besides, no one really cares about how sorry you feel for yourself, so why should you?
Invest your time into looking at things in a more positive space. If you don't like something change it! If you think something is wrong in the space it's in move it! The moral to this story is that you have the power and control to create and destroy your own destiny. Don't just complain about how something is affecting you, be a agent for change proactive in how the situation affects you. And make sure there isn't any room in your life for a pity party, because I'm sure no one will want to go.
Until next time folks '...Keep calm and carry on'
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